Female gun recommendations

BrittBritt New MemberPosts: 1 New Member
Hi, I am trying to find a gun that is small enough to be comfortable to shoot but a large enough caliber for self defense.

I've tried a .22 pistol (easy to shoot but doesn't have a lot of stopping power) a .38 special (bulky/harder to hold and left me with a bone bruise on my thumb) and a .380 pistol (size/kick was alright but the S&W jammed 5 times in less than an hour and every casing came back and hit me on the face/chest).

I'm not sure where to go from here, any recommendations are greatly appreciated.

I have approximately a 7.5 in. hand circumference and prefer pistols to revolvers.

Thank you.

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  • JayhawkerJayhawker Moderator Posts: 13,648 Senior Member
    At the outset, it sounds as if you need some coaching...as to a specific firearm until we know something about your shooting background it's going to be hard to help....
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  • zorbazorba Senior Member Posts: 15,688 Senior Member
    I'd recommend going to a range that rents guns and trying/shooting as many as possible. You'll find one that works for you.

    My wife prefers revolvers as she doesn't like flying brass - but that's her and not necessarily you.
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  • Wambli SkaWambli Ska Moderator Posts: 25,422 Senior Member
    Jayhawker wrote: »
    At the outset, it sounds as if you need some coaching...as to a specific firearm until we know something about your shooting background it's going to be hard to help....
    I agree. The two issues you mentioned with the .38 and .380 can be easily conquered with training on stance and grip.
    "Attack rapidly, ruthlessly, viciously, without rest, however tired and hungry you may be, the enemy will be more tired, more hungry. Keep punching." General George S. Patton
  • bisleybisley Senior Member Posts: 9,784 Senior Member
    If you do not have access to fundamental instruction, there are some pretty good books and videos that can give you a clue about proper grip techniques. The jamming with the .380 indicates a likelihood of 'limp-wristing,' which is simply not gripping the gun tightly enough and using your 'off' hand correctly to control it.

    Get some professional help if you have no one else that knows what they are talking about, and then shoot almost any self defense type gun and you should be able to control it. I've seen petite little females run circles around the boys, with a .45, so I know your problem must be technique.
  • earlyearly Senior Member Posts: 4,950 Senior Member
    If you're carrying it daily, it needs to meet your size requirements to be concealed, and will take some proper application to conquer recoil.

    If it's a house or vehicle gun, it can be larger and may be less of a problem to learn to control.
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  • NCFUBARNCFUBAR Senior Member Posts: 4,231 Senior Member
    As others have said ...

    The first thing depends on your training level, if you are going at it with the intent of using is as a SD/HD firearm get some good training ... more than firing rounds at a stationary paper target. If you have a good instructor you'll likely get good suggestions from him but second thing don't go on just what a person tells you, especially a sales person, as said above go to a range and rent what you think might interest you. If friends or family have something see if you can invite them your treat for lunch and an hour at the range. Do not buy a firearm no matter how great a reputation it has unless if fit your hand, you can operate it without struggle and you like it. My wife went thru quite a few guns from mouse subcompacts to compacts to even a smallish full size revolver before she stole my Sunday go to church Gun (Sig P239). Luckily I already owned all but 1 of them. As to caliber ... training and mechanics allow even the smallish hands of many women to fire larger calibers as long as she hasn't been told to much she can't by a man. My wife prefers a 9mm but can run my .45acps pretty damn easy ... and handles an old S&W 29 .44mag pretty damn good as well but she worked her way there.
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  • Wambli SkaWambli Ska Moderator Posts: 25,422 Senior Member
    BTW, where are my manners... Welcome!
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  • 10canyon5310canyon53 Member Posts: 577 Senior Member
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  • Gene LGene L Senior Member Posts: 9,421 Senior Member
    Can't help...all my guns are males. They're loud, lack compassion, and sometimes fire before you want them to.

    But for a female wanting a gun who fits her hand, given all the limitations, I'd try a S&W Shield. A single-stack 9mm.
    Not too many problems you can't fix
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  • ZeeZee Senior Member Posts: 19,072 Senior Member
    Welcome!

    You seem to be fitting sound advise so far. Stick around and keep us informed of your progress.
    "To Hell with efficiency, it's performance we want!" - Elmer Keith
  • SIGgalSIGgal Senior Member Posts: 1,660 Senior Member
    Yay, another girl lol. Welcome to the nut house! I came here for similar reasons. I am petite with small hands, and every gun I have had a chance to shoot was too large in grip size, or just hurt from recoil. Alot of information to consider tho, and the general opinion tends to be towards the .38, 9mm and .32S&W. I shot the S&W Shield, several revolvers, Kahr pm9 and several others. I prefer semi autos as well, but settled on a .38 because it fit so much better in my hands. Good luck and welcome welcome welcome :)
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  • BigslugBigslug Senior Member Posts: 6,617 Senior Member
    .38 Special ammo varies GREATLY in terms of velocity and bullet weight, and .38 Special revolvers can vary GREATLY in grip size and weight. All those variables will cause the recoil to range from virtually none to quite a bit.

    If you're looking for a HOME gun and have small hands, Look at a 4.2" barrel Ruger SP-101. These are chambered for .357 Magnum which can also shoot the lighter, shorter .38 Special round. It's an all-steel 5-shot that has some weight to absorb the kick.

    Carry gun - S&W 640-1. Hammerless .357 with a 2.25" barrel. All stainless steel, so will kick less than the alloy framed lightweights.

    Glock 43 9mm also would be good for house or carry.
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  • zorbazorba Senior Member Posts: 15,688 Senior Member
    Bigslug wrote: »
    Glock 43 9mm also would be good for house or carry.

    And the Ruger LC9s.
    -Zorba, "The Veiled Male"

    Carry a 25 if it makes you feel good, but do not ever load it. If you load it, you may shoot it. If you shoot it, you may hit somebody, and if you hit somebody – and he finds out about it – he may be very angry with you. --Jeff Cooper
  • AxeAxe Member Posts: 313 Member
    anything 9mm and single stack will be a good start for you. My daughter has small hands and she shoots revolvers well enough. May be a good place to start.
  • cpjcpj Senior Member Posts: 37,099 Senior Member
    Gene L wrote: »
    Can't help...all my guns are males. They're loud, lack compassion, and sometimes fire before you want them to.
    Gene won the Internet. :up:
    "I'm here for the guns, hunting, and skirt wearing men."
    Zee
  • john9001john9001 Senior Member Posts: 668 Senior Member
    Welcome, you are getting good advice here, you need a gun you are comfortable shooting and carrying, good luck on your search.
  • neosamneosam New Member Posts: 13 New Member
    I also recommend that you visit a local gun store that offers classes.
  • VarmintmistVarmintmist Senior Member Posts: 6,254 Senior Member
    SIGgal wrote: »
    Yay, another girl lol. Welcome to the nut house! I came here for similar reasons. I am petite with small hands, and every gun I have had a chance to shoot was too large in grip size, or just hurt from recoil. Alot of information to consider tho, and the general opinion tends to be towards the .38, 9mm and .32S&W.
    Dont think anyone recommended 32S&W, I hope not. A 32ACP loaded right with decent factory offerings would be OK, or at least better than a sharp stick.

    As to the OP. If you can shoot a 22 well and it is a home defense gun, use it. At least until you get enough experience that you can handle something larger. One of the first things you need to understand about any gun small enough to be concealed and fired in one hand for the avg person, there is no such thing as "stopping power" like in the movies. The idea is to put enough holes in the target that the target decides that it is tired of receiving holes and is convinced that it is time to stop. Bigger holes should make the decision quicker, but there is no phaser out there that is a guaranteed one shot stop.

    If you bruised your hand on a 38,,,, I am guessing you were shooting a airweight snubbie with heavy for cal bullets and dont have a lot of experience or a good coach. That is re-enforced by the 380 experiance. I took my daughter out for a range session, her first with handguns, and I had her shooting a 1911 45acp and a 357 with 125gr bullets within the hour and hitting a 12 in steel target at 20 yards more often than not. There was a day or 5 of familiarization before we ever put a round downrange.


    And BTW, cute puppy.
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  • bobbyrlf3bobbyrlf3 Senior Member Posts: 2,412 Senior Member
    Welcome to the Jungle. Please leave all ninja gear at the door.

    Also, welcome to the shooting community. The advice you've seen so far in this thread is as sound as it gets. Use it, and keep us posted on how it's going.
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  • TugarTugar Senior Member Posts: 1,631 Senior Member
    I would also caution against going TOO small. A compact will be slightly larger but can be MUCH easier to shoot well than it's smaller cousin the subcompact.

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  • HAWKENHAWKEN Senior Member Posts: 1,651 Senior Member
    Britt, Welcome to the mad house. I know that you prefer semi automatics but I recommend that you consider a revolver instead, for several reasons. There is no safety to worry about engaging or disengaging, the trigger pull is identical for each round. All you have to remember is point the gun at the bad guy and pull the trigger. I recommend that you continue to pull the trigger until you hear a click instead of a bang, or he falls to the floor or runs out the door. When you are asked why you shot 6 times, tell the nice officer that you don't remember how many times you fired because you were scared..........robin
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  • Wambli SkaWambli Ska Moderator Posts: 25,422 Senior Member
    Britt has not been by to check on her thread since she posted in August. Just saying...

    But she got a lot of good info hat maybe some lurkers can use.
    "Attack rapidly, ruthlessly, viciously, without rest, however tired and hungry you may be, the enemy will be more tired, more hungry. Keep punching." General George S. Patton
  • VarmintmistVarmintmist Senior Member Posts: 6,254 Senior Member
    Darn newbie playing Dr Frankenstien again
    It's boring, and your lack of creativity knows no bounds.
  • NNNN Senior Member Posts: 22,782 Senior Member
    Welcome aboard.

    Try a Bersa Thunder .380. Granted it is a small cartridge; but, if the .38 was too much, I suspect any more powerful cartridge in a small gun will be a problem for you.

    Also, be sure your not limp wristing.

    Clean can't shoot any thing with much recoil----she did like the Bersa. No brass in the chest or jamming.

    Her hand is small like yours.
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  • LMLarsenLMLarsen Senior Member Posts: 8,161 Senior Member
    Guys. August.
    “A gun is a tool, no better or no worse than any other tool: an axe, a shovel or anything. A gun is as good or as bad as the man using it. Remember that.”

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  • earlyearly Senior Member Posts: 4,950 Senior Member
    I recommend that all eligible females have guns.
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