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  • bowserbbowserb Posts: 277 Member
    Well since we bought an LC380 for my wife I thought I'd add some input here. When we went gun shopping for her I had ideas about what I wanted here to have, thinking it would be her carry gun, like a Kahr 9, an M&P Shield, or maybe one of the compact Springfields. But ultimately I let it be her decision, and she chose the LC380. Now, after she has practiced with it, she doesn't care for it too much, saying that its a bit snappy in the hand and hard to be consistently accurate with it. She now prefers my XD9 and shoots quite well with it, and she says she feels more confident with the larger gun, but she doesn't want to go up to a .40 or .45. I've shot her LC380 a few times and had no problems other than not liking the long trigger pull, which I think could actually make it awkward to pull off a quick 3 tap in a defense situation.
    The LC is a DAO gun, isn't it? Only thing worse, for me, is a DA/SA, that takes me three shots to find the target. My wife's favorite--not great for concealed carry--is a full size 1911 in 9mm. With a 9mm and a 2 1/2 pound 1911, it's almost like dry-firing, except for the noise! I carry a Springfield XDM45 4.5", and my wife does not like it one bit. She's still pondering a carry pistol, but she took the CHL test with the 9mm 1911.
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  • C1PNRC1PNR Posts: 1 New Member
    I agree with sarg1c, except I like the DAO simplicity of my 642-1. No hammer to catch in clothing, "stuff" in the glove box, etc. Plus a LOT less to think about in that very highly stressed moment when you simply must present your defensive argument. I didn't care for the splinter grip that came on it so i substituted this SILJC Fingergrove which gives me much better control.
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  • Gene LGene L Posts: 12,817 Senior Member
    Shooter13 wrote: »
    I know it only comes in 9mm & .40, I have one in 9mm. What I am saying is that it would make sense to make a shield in .380.
    It would be a better gun to shoot than the tiny Ruger LCP, and LC380 (I shot an LC9 n chose the Shield) it would be like a modern Walther PPK.. Smaller, lighter and reliable,, cheaper..

    It's too big of a pistol for a .380. Especially modern .380s, which are miniscule. Small for a 9mm isn't the same as small for a .380. Smith ain't gonna make one any time soon.
    Concealed carry is for protection, open carry is for attention.
  • Shooter13Shooter13 Posts: 125 Member
    Ok guys we went to the range Saturday and rented some .380 pistols to help my friend decide what to get. We tried the Bersa Thunder, S&W Bodyguard, and Walther pk380. She also fired my M&P Shield9mm, Springfield xd9(4"), and my Xd9 sc(3"). The gun she was most comfortable with at the end was the S&W Bodyguard 380.
    The shield is impossible to find and the Sprinfields she shot well but couldn't get comfortable without that dang thumb safety (sorry glock) but this bumps you out.,

    So the Bodyguard seems like a good gun, felt nice and built well, the sights are small but usable, and although the trigger pull was long it was smooth and predictable. She had no performance issues either. She got it for $400 and is happy with the purchase.. She also got a range membership and is now considering a chl! Thanks everyone for your help..
  • bisleybisley Posts: 10,815 Senior Member
    I'm sure it's a nice little gun, but I kinda hate to see a brand new shooter start off with a laser sight. I like them for a lot of reasons on a little pistol, but everyone needs to learn how to use the iron sights, and a new shooter always takes the quickest, easiest path to accuracy. If it can be turned off, try to get her to practice without it, so she goes to iron sights by default, and if the laser actually works in an SD situation, so much the better. The laser is great for practicing trigger control with dry-fire practice.

    Still, it is a pistol that might save her life, someday, and I commend her for making the decision to defend herself.:up:
  • Shooter13Shooter13 Posts: 125 Member
    bisley wrote: »
    I'm sure it's a nice little gun, but I kinda hate to see a brand new shooter start off with a laser sight. I like them for a lot of reasons on a little pistol, but everyone needs to learn how to use the iron sights, and a new shooter always takes the quickest, easiest path to accuracy. If it can be turned off, try to get her to practice without it, so she goes to iron sights by default, and if the laser actually works in an SD situation, so much the better. The laser is great for practicing trigger control with dry-fire practice.

    Still, it is a pistol that might save her life, someday, and I commend her for making the decision to defend herself.:up:


    I too was concerned that she would pick this gun simply because it had a laser, so I encouraged her to practice without it.. She shot very well using the BGs sights. Overall she got the gun that fit in her hand the best and she was the most confident with that one.. Since I had no experience with these guns I kept most of my opinions to myself and let her choose her self. I'm glad I was at least able to point her in the right direction.
  • WeatherbyWeatherby Posts: 4,953 Senior Member
    I think you did great in helping out in the selection.
    You may want to go a bit further with training and encouragement about keeping that gun handy "whenever" she may need it
  • TCTC Posts: 2 New Member
    My Wife carries a 380 S&W Bodyguard and loves it, great purse or pocket carry. I don't care for the long throw trigger, but once your used to it, it's a vary accurate piece.

    Tom


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  • BigDanSBigDanS Posts: 6,992 Senior Member
    Zombie thread!!!

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  • sarg1csarg1c Posts: 1,707 Senior Member
    C1PNR wrote: »
    I agree with sarg1c, except I like the DAO simplicity of my 642-1. No hammer to catch in clothing, "stuff" in the glove box, etc. Plus a LOT less to think about in that very highly stressed moment when you simply must present your defensive argument. I didn't care for the splinter grip that came on it so i substituted this SILJC Fingergrove which gives me much better control.

    Mine came with the Rubber finger grip grips but speed loaders would not work with them so I swoped for the wood grips, but since have gone back to the Rubber ones.
  • BigslugBigslug Posts: 9,863 Senior Member
    20 gauge shotgun.
    WWJMBD?

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  • zorbazorba Posts: 25,283 Senior Member
    Bigslug wrote: »
    20 gauge shotgun.
    This is no joke - my wife loves ours - its "just right" for her.

    She will also plug away with her .357 - but finds .38 spcl to be her load of choice, the .357 kicks too much.
    -Zorba, "The Veiled Male"

    "If you get it and didn't work for it, someone else worked for it and didn't get it..."
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  • HAWKENHAWKEN Posts: 1,720 Senior Member
    I also believe that bigger is better, ( The bigger the hole(s), the quicker they bleed out ), but considering her stature, and the choices mentioned, I would consider the Walther PPK or PPKS. I have a PPKS and it is a bit heavier than the other choices. This translates to less felt recoil. It is a proven concept, with an excellent track record. Mine is loaded with 102 grain Remington Golden Sabres. Not a bad choice for serious social work. As with any choice, your best money spent will be for ammunition to practice with..........Robin
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